DREAMS OR REAL?!

Can someone help this couple out?

I have a case pending - our friend was carried with the talks or probably exaggerations of friends. 

E was a very brilliant and God fearing High School student, she did so well in her academics pursuit. Her friends always discussed relationship and sexual matters in the school, but E was somehow lost in the talk as she was still a virgin even at the apex of her high school years.

In order not to be left behind, E pretended to know, boasted  and also enjoyed what was being discussed about by her friends. With this the friends felt she is aware of what it all about.

After her high school, E had admission successfully into a higher institution and completed her course with an excellent point. She felt the need to have the long awaited right man to really experience the so-much-talked-about sexual issues.

M surfaced for E and with time promises of living forever emerged. Although E parents thoroughly interviewed E on the choice of a husband she intended marrying, it appears all was well with her.

They both remain faithful to each other until the nuptial deal was done legally. On the very night of the wedding, the couple decided to have the fun of their lives as much as possible. With the hope that E knows much as she use to talked about, M relax to enjoyed himself and in the process E could not bear the pains mixed with pleasure, in trying to escape the situation that night, E absconded to her Chief Bride's Maid apartment around the environment without dressing (naked) from the bedroom with the excuse of using the convenient room. E had to pass through the kitchen and walked through the lonely night to her friend's apartment.

After few minutes of not returning back to the room, the husband called out and there was no respond from E, and after checking and not seeing her, M decided to make several calls to all the known places where his beloved wife would have been since she left her mobile set in the room, finally to her chief bride's maid mobile number and the answer came that she arrived few minutes ago with excuses of mixed feelings.    

M went down that night to meet his wife E at her friend's apartment, but the situation did not change, and the E's parents were consulted, even at that, there was no change of mind. E had been in the friend's house for couple of weeks and the neighborhood became aware of the incident. M could not bear the embarrassment and shame this situation had brought, and had called on the family for withdrawal from the deal.

Presently, friends and family members are putting the blames on the family for not educating their child, but the father is shifting the blame to the mother who is expected to have done that as a woman. E is complaining of the size of the husband.

M is making plans of satisfying himself and eradicating the shame brought on him by marrying another woman. And the Father of E said that E cannot return back to his house that way.

Please, comment on how to help the family and the couple. What should M do at this critical moment? How about E? What is expected of her mother to rescue the situation before it gets out of hand? Are there things we can equally learn from here to minimized such occurrences? Please, post your comment!

CAN WE STILL TRUST OUR MEN? PLEASE HELP OUT URGENTLY!

Two childhood female friends vowed to remain virgins as long as they both exist as singles, and if by mistake they took in, they will never abort. They did well until when one of them (Miss A) met her Mr. Right and the other (Miss B) was to be her best lady in their wedding. In the process of preparation for the Wedding, the best lady (Miss B) was to arrange things with Mr. Right in his apartment and along the line, Mr. Right became attracted to Miss B such that she was raped and her friend was not away due to fear of loosing or hampering relationship or the event at hand, Miss B managed with the situation and after the wedding, Miss B had to visit Mrs. Right in her new apartment. In one of the visits, Mrs. Right requested that she needs to visit her Hair stylist and that Miss B should help out in the kitchen so as to have the husband's food ready on the table before he's return from office. While Mrs. Right was out, not quite long Mr. Right was back at home, since the environment was conducive again, Mr. Right advanced once again to his prey (Miss B) and succeeded in having the fun with her the second time. This time, Miss B was not fortunate enough, so she picked in and did not know how to break the news to her friends. But when the news got the Mr. Right, he promised to meet all her needs.

 Right now the two friends are pregnant, and Mrs. Right is requesting to know who would have been responsible for her friend's misfortune and Miss B had promised to bring the Man concern but could not do that for some couple weeks now. Knowing fully well who her friend is health-wise (Epileptic) and the cause of her action and promises of faithfulness. 

 Mrs. Right had recently been taking good care of her friend's medical attentions and expecting the man in order to straighten matters before it becomes sour, but nobody is showing up. Miss B parents are disciplinarians and would never want to hear such a news from their only daughter. Presently, Miss B, due to fear and embarrassment and changed her mobile line to keep off from the parents and her friend, also relocated to an unknown environment only known to Mr. Right who is the Sponsor. 

What is your advice to Miss B presently, considering her condition and that of her friend and their future?
Please, send in your counsel to the parties concern. 

HAVE A SECOND THOUGHT!

Have you ever thought of the origin of relationship and Marriage? WHY are we engaged in this issue? We need to know WHY????

White Wedding - Is there any backing and solid origination?

Should we not ask WHY in most of the norms or practices left behind by our ancestors or parents?

Must we accept everything without questioning WHY?
Check out this story:
A young lady and a struggling young man opted out for a life-long-relationship which finally led to marriage. After the known Traditional Marriage, the Court or Registry was conducted and unfortunately the young man could not afford the White Wedding, and the whole money borrowed and earned was with the Lady.
After the Registry, on their way back home, she insisted the wedding must hold in two weeks time and the young man pleaded that the money might not carry. But to his surprise, she informed him of spreading the news already to her friends and colleagues. Without getting home, they went on the ways not agreeing. After two days, the man went back to her in her parent's house to demand WHY she is adamant to his explanation and promise to do so after two or three months when the pay comes in and some urgent debts settle, but she still refuse the pleads,then the man asked playfully that she returned the bride-price and others, to his amazement, she went in and brought that which remain from the ceremony and told him to check back when he is ready.
The Man in question is presently married to another lady with a kid, and our friend (the first lady) is still waiting for the White Wedding after she had consented to a divorce. No body for now is ready to ask her out with the known drama.
WHO IS TO BE BLAMED AND WHY?
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