Should we not ask WHY in most of the norms or practices left behind by our ancestors or parents?
Must we accept everything without questioning WHY?
Check out this story:
A young lady and a struggling young man opted out for a life-long-relationship which finally led to marriage. After the known Traditional Marriage, the Court or Registry was conducted and unfortunately the young man could not afford the White Wedding, and the whole money borrowed and earned was with the Lady.
After the Registry, on their way back home, she insisted the wedding must hold in two weeks time and the young man pleaded that the money might not carry. But to his surprise, she informed him of spreading the news already to her friends and colleagues. Without getting home, they went on the ways not agreeing. After two days, the man went back to her in her parent's house to demand WHY she is adamant to his explanation and promise to do so after two or three months when the pay comes in and some urgent debts settle, but she still refuse the pleads,then the man asked playfully that she returned the bride-price and others, to his amazement, she went in and brought that which remain from the ceremony and told him to check back when he is ready.
The Man in question is presently married to another lady with a kid, and our friend (the first lady) is still waiting for the White Wedding after she had consented to a divorce. No body for now is ready to ask her out with the known drama.
WHO IS TO BE BLAMED AND WHY?
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